I have definitely been slacking on my blog posts the past few weeks. But I believe I have a somewhat of an OK excuse- I'm getting married tomorrow!!!! I'm very excited and ready to start my new life with my soulmate :)
Throughout my real estate career, I've seen that getting married and starting a family spurs the dream to have a nest-egg together. Now it's personally happening to me!
I'm not really sure what the psychological reason is, but I have found it's a natural progression. Maybe it has to do with a new stability and having something together....?
If you previously bought a home on your own, you made all the decisions. Now buying as a couple, you'll need to practice your compromising skills. Here are a few tips when starting the process of buying your first home together:
1. Each person write down your "Must Have" list
Particularly think about things that aren't easy to change
Location
Style of home
Size of the home (bedrooms, baths as well as square footage)
Yard size
If you don't agree on the color of cabinets, that's not a huge deal. But if someone wants to live in downtown Philadelphia and the other wants to be in Malvern, well that's a problem.
2. Compare your lists to determine your "Must Have" and your "Nice to Have" items. This may require intense conversations and potentially some compromising.
I can't tell you how many times I have taken a husband and wife out and they have complete different tastes on styles and layouts of a home. Often times the skeptical party becomes a little more open minded if we physically tour a home and/or see how excited their partner is about a specific home. So don't necessarily rule out a home if one person doesn't love it, both partners need to keep an open mind.
3. When one partner really likes a home, each of you write down the pros and cons and either keep it on your list or take it off. It's helpful to keep your favorites to 2 or 3, much more than that becomes difficult to keep track.
It's a great time to be starting your house hunt. Interest rates are still in the mid 4% and it's unknown how long they will stay so low! Contact me for questions or additional information.
GOOD LUCK :)
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